Having a Problem with Your Player's Coach?
It is our goal that every parent, player, and coach has a positive experience but we recognize that does not always happen and issues may arise that need to be addressed. If that happens, remember that everyone involved is a human being with all the feelings and flaws that might go with that. We all have our own histories, backgrounds, and personal impacts outside of soccer. So managing your own emotions and expectations will be a big help in finding quick resolutions.
A couple of quick things to keep in mind when dealing with issues
- Timely Feedback: Unresolved issues often become worse with time, but more than that we don't want you carrying around negative feelings for a long time and we need the ability to address things within reasonable timeframes.
- Volunteers: Remember, the coach is a volunteer—not a paid professional. This isn’t meant to absolve them if an issue occurs, but rather to remind us we’re all people.
- Respectfulness: It is expected that all parties will remain respectful!
What should I do if I'm having problems with the coach?
If a serious problem should arise concerning the coach, the parents should talk with the coach in a calm manner and try to resolve the issue respectfully and constructively. Ideally the conversation will be held away from players, practices, or games. If no solution can be reached, the parents should contact the Division Commissioner. If the problem persists, set up a meeting with the Coach Administrator, Division Commissioner and Coach. Problems can usually be solved through effective and timely communication.
My child doesn't get along with their coach, can they change teams?
No. Discuss the problem with your child and the coach and try to resolve the problem between yourselves. Team changes are near impossible once rosters are finalized.