Having a Problem with Your Player's Coach?
It is our goal that every parent, player, and coach has a positive experience but we recognize that does not always happen and issues may arise that need to be addressed. If that happens, remember that everyone involved is a human being with all the emotions, feelings, and flaws that might go with that. We all have our own histories, backgrounds, and personal impacts outside of soccer. So managing one's own emotions and expectations will be a big help in finding quick resolutions.
Couple of quick things about dealing with issues
- Timely Feedback: Unresolved issues often become worse with time, but more than that we don't want you carrying around negative feelings for a long time and we need the ability to address things within reasonable timeframes.
- Volunteers: Remember the coach is a volunteer not a paid professional, that is not to absolve a coach if an issue occurs but a reminder of we are all people.
- Respectfulness: It is expected that all parties will remain respectful when dealing with issues that arise.
What should I do if I'm having problems with the coach?
If a serious problem should arise concerning the coach, the parents should talk with the coach in a calm manner and try to work out the problems like adults, away from the players (preferably this meeting will be done outside of practice or games). If no solution can be reached, the parents should contact the Division Commissioner. If the problem persists, set up a meeting with the Coach Administrator, Division Commissioner and Coach. Problems can usually be solved through effective and timely communication.
My child doesn't get along with their coach, can they change teams?
No. Discuss the problem with your child and the coach and try to resolve the problem between yourselves. It is almost impossible to move players between teams after they have been formed.